How To'sHow to Use a Vibrator
Vibrators are fun for almost everyone, but are especially popular amongst women: using a vibrator clitorally is the easiest way for most women to reach orgasm. A vibrator can help you get more in touch with your body and sexual feelings, and may be included in foreplay or used during sex with a partner to help achieve orgasm. A good vibrator for beginners is the Waterproof Superslim.
Here are some basic tips for getting the most out of your vibrator
All you really need to know about using a vibrator is do what feels good, keep it clean and if it's not waterproof, don't put it in water! Now that you have the very simple rules - a vibrator is designed to stimulate. It does a better job of stimulating than a tongue, fingers, or any inanimate object. It is a perfect tool for masturbation for both women or men and can greatly heighten sexual intensity for couples. There is a definite difference between a vibrator induced orgasm and an orgasm produced by other means. A vibrator orgasm is much more intense and it's not uncommon for women to have multiple orgasms while using a vibrator. Since consistent and intense stimulation of the clitoris is normally required for a woman to climax we recommend the Jelly Krystal for beginners.
The Low Down on Lube for Sex Toys
While there are some sex toys that can safely be used without lube, Picking the Right Lube can help protect most sex toys from overall damage and increases the sex toy's lifespan. Using Lube with your sex toy also greatly enhances the sex toy's effectiveness and the sex toy user's overall experience - especially with Proper Cleaning.
You should always be careful which kind of lube you use with your sex toy. Using the wrong lube could damage your sex toy or greatly decrease its lifespan. Water-based lubes can be used safely with any sex toy. Oil or petroleum-based lubes can damage certain sex toys - particularly sex toys made from latex. Silicone-based lubes can be used with any sex toy that is not made from silicone.
Once you've selected a safe lube to use with your sex toy, you should carefully apply a small bit of lube to the toy as well as the body part you intend to use the toy on. If you have a dildo you want to use for anal penetration, you should apply the lube to your anus. There should be enough lube to solidly coat both surfaces. Note that depending on which type of lube you use, you might need to stop briefly to add more if the lube should dry out.
To clean off the lube, you should wipe off the toy and yourself with warm, soapy water and then dry off with a towel. Water-based lubes are the easiest to clean off. Other lubes might prove more difficult to remove or can leave behind a sticky feeling that some people find unpleasant.
Most sex toys are incredibly easy to clean. Just wet a clean towel in warm soapy water and wipe the sex toys off - taking care not to get the control area or battery compartment wet. If you use your sex toy anally, you must clean it very thoroughly using antibacterial soap or rubbing alcohol if possible as soon as possible after each use. There are also special cleaners formulated to safely work with adult sex toys that you could use instead. Be sure to clean your sex toy soon after use. Never put off cleaning your sex toy until the next day.
After cleaning, dry the sex toy with a soft, clean cloth. If your sex toy is made from cyberskin, you should apply the special powder to maintain the sex toy's unique feeling. After thoroughly drying your sex toy, you should wrap it in a dry cloth and store your sex toy in a cool, dry place.
These are the recommended cleaning methods for the most popular sex toy materials:
Plastic? soap and water, rubbing alcohol, sex toy cleaner
Latex? mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Jelly? mild soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Cyberskin? mild soap and water, Cyberskin cleaner, sex toy cleaner, talcum powder
Silicone? soap and water, sex toy cleaner
Glass? soap and water, sex toy cleaner, rubbing alcohol, boiling water
When you wear out your batteries, replacing them is as simple as a trip to your nearest drug store. Most sex toys take AA or AAA batteries, but some sex toys take common watch batteries. Be sure to take note what battery you need when you remove them from the sex toys. The batteries on most models can be removed by unscrewing the base of the sex toys or removing the panel on the remote control.
Batteries contain highly corrosive chemicals, and it?s not recommended that you leave them inside your sex toy for extended periods of time. If you don't plan to use your sex toy for longer than a week, you should remove the batteries, wrap your sex toy in a dry towel and store it in a cool, dry place.
All About Female Orgasms
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Orgasm is defined as the peak of climax or sexual excitement in sexual activity. An orgasm is produced by involuntary muscular contraction. Sexual excitement usually grows gradually and a person feels more and more pleasure and a kind of exciting tension. All the feelings of tension then disappear when the orgasm happens, plus the person experiences feelings of intense pleasure. The feeling can be so strong that a person might not be able to see, or hear or think about anything for a moment. They might even groan and call out with the pleasure. Orgasms usually last only a few seconds but the feelings might last a lot longer
Are all women capable or reaching orgasm? Yes, unless there is some rare congenital abnormality or extensive genital surgery where nerves have been cut. Some women who have had a stroke can still reach orgasm. Women who are Spinal Cord injured and are paraplegic or quadriplegic will probably not have a genital orgasm but can reach orgasm by stimulating other areas of their bodies. Some women who have severe diabetes may not reach orgasm because of nerve degeneration.
Some women have lovely small ripple orgasms, others have massive orgasms. There are women who have one orgasm after the other as long as the stimulation continues; for others, one is quite enough for them. There is no normal, all are unique. A few women may have singleton orgasms with one partner and multiple orgasms with another partner. Some women experience a headache after orgasm; some start to cry and some start to laugh; this is simply a release of pent-up sexual tension. These reactions quickly pass and you bathe in the afterglow. Be honest about it. Every once in a while, you will have a cataclysmic orgasm. He will know it -- he'll have the bruises to show for it. There are no rules when it comes to orgasms.
It is a myth that a female should have an orgasm every time she has sex. There are times when it just will not happen, if she feels fat or ugly, afraid that she might get pregnant or a disease, she may be tired, stressed, angry at her partner, preoccupied with family or finances etc. She may be uncomfortable, even in pain.
There will be times when all systems are GO and she does not have an orgasm. The sex was good, she is fine, satisfied, happy and contented. She was very aroused then just slid over the top and into the "refractory period" but she is still purring.
HOW TO HAVE AN ORGASM for FEMALES
Most women reach their first orgasm all by themselves. There are a few things you have to do before you begin. First, you have to:
- Become comfortable with your own body.
- Look at the messages you got as a kid about "self pleasuring"(masturbation). Bad, dirty, dangerous?
- Give yourself permission to fantasize about sex. Read a sexy novel, romance pocket book, allow yourself to get turned on. You can't masturbate without fantasy. Read our web site on female masturbation.
- Give yourself permission to stimulate yourself, Learn what pleasures you, all by yourself.
- Share that information with your partner, guide your partner so he can make the moves that are pleasurable for you.
There are a few basics you need to know. For most females, penis size is not important. Bigger is not better. Most women do not reach orgasm with sexual intercourse. Most women reach orgasm by clitoral stimulation, either manual, oral-genital contact or a vibrator. | |
